Hi there, friend!

You probably noticed that The Joy List looks a little different today. That’s because we’re trying a new email platform, Beehiiv.

Along with this upgrade comes an exciting new feature for you guys: a referral program!

The Tiers

Now, when you refer The Joy List to friends, you’ll get access to great rewards. The fabulous tiers are:

• 3 referrals: The Ultimate Guide To Making Friends In NYC, a 20-page guide to all the cool communities where you can meet people

• 15 referrals: A free ticket to Skip The Small Talk, one of the most popular events in The Joy List

• 25 referrals: A free ticket to The Feels, a dating event that’s another hit in the newsletter, and a $95 value!

• 50 referrals: A first-timers pass to Othership, a new sauna and cold plunge spot in Flatiron with great parties

How It Works

All you have to do is hit the ‘click to share’ button below, and shoot the newsletter over to some people who are new in town, in a moment of transition, or just love fun and intentional events.

The Joy List is a one-woman show, and spreads almost exclusively through word of mouth. So thank you, as always, for your support!

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Over the course of an hour, you will get into your body, hear what's going on for others and receive personalized guidance from Nathan. Check out this link to learn more and sign up for the complimentary call.

Gatherings

Double check details before you go, and contact the organizers with questions! The Joy List does not run these events.

Tuesday, July 30: Sin And Modern Life

Using the poetry of Marie Howe and a painting from the Middle Ages we will explore personal narrative, mourning, and sin. This Olio, designed by poet, Kat Rejsek, asks us to tap into our notion of “sin” and where we attained our definition of the word and all the baggage associated with it. We’ll have writing prompts, group discussion questions and discover some relevant art to round out a robust Olio experience.

$25. 7:30 to 9 PM. Kings County, address at RSVP. Info here.

Tuesday, July 30: Pitch And Run

Pitch your biz while running beautiful NYC.

Free. 7:30 AM. Prospect Park. Info here.

Wednesday, July 31: Global Colors CircleSing

Our Global Colors CircleSing is a celebration and amalgamation of musical styles from around the world. Led by Zahara (Annette Philip), creator and director of the Grammy-nominated Berklee Indian Music Ensemble, we will co-create spontaneous songs that draw from a wide variety of influences. Combining musical flavors from India, the Middle East, and the Balkan regions, this musical adventure will explore vocal timbres, embrace odd meters and grooves, and dig into the rich and varied musical possibilities that live within all of us. Join us for an evening of celebratory song ~ maybe you bring your own vocal traditions and heritages into the mix, or maybe you just come along for the ride!

Donation-based. 7 to 9:30 PM. Arts On Site, 12 Saint Marks Pl. Info here.

Wednesday, July 31: The Mingle

All NYC ladies are invited to come together as we celebrate the everyday, encounter opportunities to connect with each other and to refresh the wonder and joy on the journey of discovering our best lives in the city!The Mingle is the best way to get introduced to the Camaraderie community, and integrated into widespread, authentic friendship in New York City.Come alone, come with a friend, make a new friend.. It's all intentionally relaxed, and kindness is the only prerequisite. We'll sip, we'll snack, we'll chat, share and laugh, and you'll head home abuzz with joy.

Free. 5:30pm-8:30pm. A+E Networks, 235 E 45th St. Info here.

Wednesday, July 31: Quiet Reading

Quiet Reading is an event where everyone brings their own book, we read silently for an hour, and then chat for an hour about books, culture, or anything else. We run free weekly events at libraries, parks, and cafes.

Free. 6 to 8 PM. Jefferson Market. Info here.

Thursday, August 1: Queer Kiss & Cuddles - A Bi/Pansexual+ Experience

Throughout the event, laughter mingles with whispered conversations and the gentle sound of embraces, creating an atmosphere of joy and camaraderie. Whether exchanging playful pecks on the cheek or sharing heartfelt cuddles, each interaction is a testament to the power of love to transcend differences and unite people in solidarity. As the night unfolds, memories are made, friendships are forged, and the bonds of community grow stronger, leaving a lasting impression of acceptance, love, and the beauty of queer expression.

In addition to the spirit of the event we will have guided meditation and sound bath cuddle puddles. Spiritual connection enhances an already proven healer in hugs/touch via cuddles and opportunities for a fun and flirty kisses arise in a cultivated container of queer joy.

$33.85. 7 to 10 PM. Herald Square. Info here.

Thursday, August 1: The Mush

The world’s first structured cuddle puddle and touch-positive consent training. The event has many aspects: philosophy, consent & communication practice, self-care extravaganza, many-handed healing touch opportunities, slow-motion contact dance, and more.

Our vision is to create touch-positive communities here in NYC and around THE WORLD! We require everyone to first attend the “Welcome Mush” to get oriented around community values, agreements and all the other tools & skills we need to cuddle safely together.

$10-$30. 6:30 to 10 PM. Bushwick. Info here.

Thursday, August 1: +1 Speed Dating

Met Through Friends is headed to Saint for the speed dating event of your dreams! You and your +1 will join us in this gorgeous East Village restaurant loft for 6 minute dates with other great friends-of-friends.

​​Each ticket includes admission for 2 people (1 woman interested in men + 1 man interested in women). Your +1 can be a platonic friend you think would be great for someone else, or a crush you'd like to find a cheeky way to spend time with... up to you!

$49.57 for 2. 7 to 10 PM. 136 2nd Ave. Info here.

Saturday, August 3: Tarot 101

Join us for Tarot 101, a beginner-friendly workshop designed to demystify the art of tarot. Whether you've had a tarot deck gathering dust or you're simply curious about the mystical world of divination, this workshop is perfect for you. Expect a magical afternoon led by an experienced practitioner filled with warm vibes, sparkling insights, and practical tips to move beyond the guidebook. Bring your tarot deck and an open mind, and get ready to explore the enchanting universe of tarot with fellow enthusiasts.

$25. 2-4PM. 69 Lexington Ave. Info here.

Urban Mindfulness Book Club + Skills Group

Want to feel more connected and calm while living and working in the city? Join our new book club! You will be led in meditations and exercises from the book that you can apply to your life. You’ll also have the opportunity to connect and share with others. Bi-weekly Zoom meetings on Tuesdays from 6 - 7 PM EST, starting on September 10th!

Find more Conscious Creative Wellness Events and Communities

From sound baths to underground parties, art night crafting to ecstatic dance and conscious dating, Kinlia is creating a place to connect with conscious creative nerdy wellness events and communities. Discover events on the website like Sex Trivia Night and Gong Temple. Install the mobile app to connect with aligned communities and people attending these events. 

That's it for this edition. Try something new this week, friends! 

Jillian

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