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The Joy List: September 2
Hi there, friend!
Our New Yorker of the Week today is Angelina, AKA Dez. She’s 31, lives in South Slope, and is looking for friends! If you’re interested in connecting with her, email [email protected].
Ready to make some new friends and/or go on some cute dates yourself? Fill out the application here.
And remember, if you refer The Joy List to some pals, you can get free event tickets, valuing up to $90!
Just use the handy dandy box that lives below the New Yorker of the Week.
Now, onto the fun stuff:
How would someone who loves you describe you?
Via my best friend Ingrid, translated from voice note: "You're such a multi- dimensional person.. I experience you as very paradoxical in really beautiful ways. You're psychedelic. You're soft and tender and vulnerable but also fierce and firm and bold and absolutely hilarious. You're extremely thoughtful and self- reflective. You're always growing and there's a lot of humility to that. You're a very spacious person with a spacious heart. I just think that you're on the tears to laughter pipeline.. You balance silliness and play and humor with depth and the holding the all- of- it-ness. You hold a lot of really big, hard feelings and have an incredible ability to sit with things. There's a bravery to that. You don't let fear dictate if you're going to lean into something; you just lean in and fully go for it. Such a huge heart. You just have a huge heart. I love you so much."
What sorts of things do you want to do with your friends?
I love diving into philosophical jams about life's great mysteries, wandering through the woods, park picnics, creative collaboration and expression- especially collage, poetry, photography; cooking, and all kinds of witchery (astrology, tarot + oracle cards, herbs, tea, full moon circles, drumming, spreading sea foam across my face and yelling into the void.. you know).
What's something that people might not guess about you?
My Dad's side of the family immigrated from Cuba in the 80s. I'm a Caribbean lady at heart, and I make a mean fried plantain.
Are you looking for love? Tell me about the type of person you're looking for!
I'm currently in a committed relationship with someone truly wonderful. That said, I moved to NY about a year ago and am hungry for deep friendship love and community. I love folks who are curious, playful, who strive for presence, and who see the world as sacred. I'd love to be part of a network of care and tenderness. I'd love to build things, create roots, grow and explore with others who are like- minded. I'd love to feel like Brooklyn is not an over- stimulating city, but a sticky land of possibilities and friends I've yet to feed.
Anything else that the Joy List community can help you with?
I recently worked through all the stickiness of marketing myself and am finally launching my first website! I am a somatic therapist, coach, birth doula + artist. I would be honored if you could check it out and pass it along to anyone who might benefit: www.wholisticrewilding.com
The Fertile Void: Transpersonal Psychology, Hypnosis, and Past Life Regression - A 4-week Guided Experience
Are you feeling called to explore the vastness of the mind? "The Fertile Void" is a transformative journey into transpersonal psychology, hypnosis, and past life regression. Led by hypnotherapist Daniel Ryan and transpersonal psychotherapist Jeff Greenberg, this four-week experiential offering will take you deep into the wide world of consciousness as you learn tools from hypnosis and post-conventional psychology. The course meets over four Sunday afternoons (2pm), beginning September 15th.
Wealth & Wellness: Your Guide To $elf Care Budgeting
Are you starting to feel the post-summer money scaries? Join our Wealth & Wellness Workshop to discover where to start with all things personal finance. We'll cover everything from mindset and goal-setting to practical wealth-building strategies. Learn how to align your money with your values and create a plan supporting your present and future. With five dates after Labor Day, there’s a spot waiting for you!
Gatherings
Double check details before you go, and contact the organizers with questions! The Joy List does not run these events.
Tuesday, September 3: Queer Kiss & Cuddles - A Bi/Pansexual+ Experience
Queer Kiss & Cuddles is an inclusive gathering that radiates warmth, acceptance, and the vibrant spirit of the LGBTQIA+ community. In a beautiful and warm energetic space, attendees converge to celebrate love in all its forms. Here, affection knows no boundaries as individuals of diverse backgrounds come together to share tender kisses, comforting embraces, and genuine connections. It's a sanctuary where everyone is encouraged to express their authentic selves without fear of judgment, fostering a sense of belonging and empowerment within a safe and welcoming environment.
$33.85. 7 to 10 PM. Near Herald Square. Info here.
Wednesday, September 4: The Feels
The future of dating [in NYC] is here, and its at The Feels. The Feels is 2x more effective than a typical singles event; 70% of all attendees walk out w the contact info for someone they’re excited about. You in?
Only men's tickets left! Get 10% off with code 'JOYLIST'
$86.10 with code. 6:30 to 9:30 PM. 347 Maujer St. Info here.
Friday, September 6: Art Bath
ART BATH is an immersive performance salon that fosters artistic community, exploration, and exchange. Hosted at the historic Blue Building on E. 46th St, Art Bath presents an eclectic spectrum of artists in a raw and intimate environment. Part concert and part art party, Art Bath is a place for forward-thinking artistic creation and experimentation.
$35 for students, $65 regular price. 8 PM. The Blue Building, E 46th St. Info here.
Saturday, September 7: Tea And Formation
Together we'll have a moment of stillness, read a poem, write out our thoughts, and then engage in small group conversation.
You'll leave feeling more connected to yourself, and with a few new friends.
Note from Jillian: I co-hosted this with Casey last time and it was a hit, so we’re doing it again!
Free. 4 to 6 PM. Prime Produce. Info here.
Saturday, September 7: Minding our Mortality: Mini Retreat
Take a break from the everyday hustle and bustle and join Here to Honor for a morning of reflections on our mortality, and explore how that can shape our perspective on life. In a calm and relaxed setting, we will engage in mindfulness practices, guided discussions, creative exercises, and practical applications including a life review and an ethical will. Space is limited to 10 people; a light lunch will be provided. (The Joy List readers - use HTHFRIEND for a registration discount!)
$75. 10am-2pm. Neighbor, 176 9th Ave. Info here.
Saturday, September 7: +1 Party: Just Friends Edition
Been wanting to make some new friends? This one’s for you. Like all Met Through Friends events, you still have to bring a +1, but this time the goal is to make platonic instead of romantic connection. Bring a friend, make some new ones together! Each ticket includes admission for 2 (your +1 can be of any gender, orientation, or relationship status).
$15 for 2 people. 5-7 PM. Blinky’s. Info here.
Sunday, September 8: Gowanus Book Club
Join the first meeting of a new book club based in Gowanus, Brooklyn. We'll be discussing "Ambition Monster," a new memoir by Jennifer Romolini. Join us to rev up your reading habits, make new friends, and meet other Brooklynites. Free, self-pay for drinks at the bar.
Self-pay for drinks at the bar; 6:30 - 8pm; 317 Third Avenue, Brooklyn NY 11215, back room. Info here.
Sunday, September 8: "Kaval Sviri" (Bulgarian Folk Song) | One-Day Choir
Gaia Music Collective's One-Day Choir series is an opportunity to sing in a choir for one day only. A celebration of song and the connective power of singing in harmony. An opportunity to build community, make some new friends, and raise our powerfully diverse voices as one.
No auditions. No commitment. No judgment or need for perfection.
Donation-based. 3:30 to 6:30 PM. Gymnopedie, 1139 Bushwick Ave. Info here.
