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Hi there, friend!
Our New Yorker of the Week today is Natalie. She’s 29, lives on the Upper East Side, and is looking for friendship and love. To contact her, email [email protected] and say what you connected with in her profile!
Ready to be the next New Yorker of the Week yourself? Of course you are! Fill out the application here.
Now, onto the fun stuff:
How would someone who loves you describe you?
I asked my friend Rebecca so you're getting a very detailed response. "Attentive and attuned: present for the people you love and really good about following up with others after they've shared something. Reliable: You always do what you say and follow through. Creative: between writing, dance and fashion, you've got a knack for expressing yourself creatively and you do it well. Balanced: you do a good job of striking up a solid balance between independence and willing to do things on your own vs. spending time with others, taking care of yourself physically vs. indulging.”
What sorts of things do you want to do with your friends?
My best friends bring out the silliest and most serious parts of me so that could mean obsessing over pop culture, celebrities, & TV shows, or having more serious talks about politics, mental health and anything in between. I also love a good group fitness class, the beach, attending events, and trying new restaurants in New York City and most of those things are more fun with friends!
What's something that people might not guess about you?
I have three tattoos.
Are you looking for love? Tell me about the type of person you're looking for!
I am! I'm straight (she/her) and I'm looking for a monogamous relationship with someone who's passionate about what they do, understands my sense of humor, and is good at banter. Ideally someone who is family-oriented, lives an active lifestyle, and appreciates the little things, like a walk in the park or the way natural sunlight shines through my windows. Someone who knows that it's hard to live in New York City, but loves it anyway. Someone who wants to share responsibilities like cooking, while I do the dishes. (Because food is a love language.) Someone who likes to travel, but not extensively and who can be an introvert as much as they are an extrovert. My partner doesn't necessarily need to like doing all of the things that I do (like I mentioned above), but understands my love for them. Ultimately, someone who's supportive and wants to see me thrive.
Anything else that the Joy List community can help you with?
Actually yes! I'm always looking for freelance event production opportunities or copywriting/editorial opportunities! I have a website that talks more about what I do: www.natalie-zisa.com or you can contact me on Instagram. It's all the same these days haha.
Deeper Speed Dating for Singles
Feeling stuck in the dating game?Join us for an unconventional type of dating experience designed for singles in NYC who crave deeper intimacy. You will be guided through simple, fun and profound exercises that will invite you to break down the walls when it comes to the opposite sex. Get ready to meet new people and have authentic and long-lasting relationships. Join us on Tuesday, August 13th at 6pm.
Gatherings
Double check details before you go, and contact the organizers with questions! The Joy List does not run these events.
Wednesday, August 7: The Feels
Exhausted by the constant swiping & craving a space to connect with values-aligned humans who are thoughtfully exploring dating? Enter: the Feels - an IRL singles event to engage in meaningful conversations, exchange compliments, drop into your body - and in the process - embark on a mini self-discovery journey. For this event, we're going to explore the theme of connection. Join us for our last event of the summer!
$76.62 with code ‘twenty.’ Only men’s tickets left. 6:30 to 9:30 PM. The Knife Factory, 347 Maujer St. Info here.
Wednesday, August 7: Hot And Social Strength Training
Get your workout on w trainer Kenny Santucci of The Strength Club, Liv Schreiber & HOT AND SOCIAL. 99% arrive solo, 100% leave as friends!
$44.52. 7 to 8 AM. The Strength Club NYC, 1 East 28th St. Info here.
Wednesday, August 7: +1 Sober Curious Singles Mixer
A singles mixer with a twist: bring your own single +1! For people who are sober, sober-curious, or just looking to meet people minus alcohol.Each ticket includes admission for 2 people (1 woman interested in men + 1 man interested in women). Your +1 can be a platonic friend you think would be great for someone else, or a crush you'd like to find a cheeky way to spend time with... up to you!
$40 for 2 people, 6:30-8:30, FABRIK. Info here.
Thursday, August 8: We Met In The Park
Tired of the apps? Come visit NYC’s IRL dating marketplace, inspired by the ones across China. 60 singles profiles from across the city will be displayed with opportunities for matchmaking and speed dating!
Free. 6 to 9 PM. Prospect Park. Info here.
Thursday, August 8: Art, Journaling and Guided Meditation Workshop
In this workshop, writer Julia Edelman will take you through guided meditation and journaling prompts to create a space for reflection, creativity and community. Express yourself fully with these helpful prompts and get inspired through writing, a visual medium of your choice, or a combination of the two. Come meet other like minded people looking for a way to ground, connect and share work. No prior writing experience necessary.
$45, 7:00-8:30pm, 16 Cypress Ave. Info here.
Thursday, August 8: Cosmic Connections: Gay, Bi, and Trans Male Singles Mixer
Step into the stars with us at "Cosmic Connections," the ultimate singles mixer for gay, bi, and trans men! 🌟✨Join us for an enchanting evening of wine, astrology, and connection. Hosted by The Magical Matchmaker and Met Through Friends, with wine by Sun Moon Rising, this celestial gathering promises an unforgettable experience.
$35PP or $60 for 2 people, 7-10PM, Loft on 5th. Info here.
Saturday, August 10: Social Alchemix Live
SOCIAL ALCHEMIX (LIVE!) is an intoxicating hybrid of intimate game night, storytelling, and aligned serendipity, conceived, designed, and hosted by cocktail guru and performer Wil Petre. In an informal setting, over drinks, and with cell phones turned off, the guests use a beautiful deck of alchemical cards to generate prompts for a meaningful exchange of thoughts. In the first part of the evening, Petre and his team introduce the game in a round played by volunteers from the audience. Afterwards everyone is invited to play in small groups, meeting new people in unscripted interactions that go beyond small talk that forge new connections.
Suggested Donation $5 - 6:30-9pm Daily Press 38 Somers St. Info here.
Sunday, August 11: Sunday Sanctuary: Yoga & Journaling Workshop
Join us for an intentional morning of peace, flow and connection. We will spend the morning dropping into mindfulness based journaling and grounding yoga.Following our expansive workshop full of movement with our bodies and minds, you will be welcomed with a yummy breakfast and time for fellowship + community.
$40.00, 8:30am, Rivian Williamsburg 366 wythe ave. Info here.
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