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The Joy List: April 14
Hi everyone,
Our New Yorker of the Week today is Aishwarya. She’s 27 and interested in friendship and love. If you want to reach out, email [email protected]
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Now, onto the fun stuff:
How would someone who loves you describe you?
My friends would say that I'm caring, compassionate, curious and very very big on communication (so I'm covering all the 4Cs!). I'm the mom of the group, making chai, samosas or baking chocolate chip cookies when my friends are around. Cooking with friends is my love language.
What sorts of things do you want to do with your friends?
Indoors I like playing Uno, Monopoly, Catan or having deep conversations about life, culture and family upbringing with friends. Outdoors I love exploring new restaurants, cozy cafes, free pop-ups, or go to comedy shows with friends.
What's something that people might not guess about you?
I love hiking and stargazing (and know a thing or two about stars, constellations and Astrophotography), and know basic level French (Ça va?)
Are you looking for love? Tell me about the type of person you're looking for!
My pronouns are she/her and I identify as straight. I'm a Biochem student who loves diving into thought-provoking books, especially fiction that unpacks capitalism, survival and relationships (Severance by Ling Ma, anyone?). I geek out over True Crime, investigative media, and random deep-dive lectures—whether on Psychology, Love, Space, or anything in between. When I'm not lost in existential pondering, I enjoy exploring NYC's hidden gems, walking in parks, hitting 4-5 mile hiking trails on weekends, taking vocational classes (learned basic level sewing recently!) and having deep conversations about all things psychology, culture, history and life.
I'm looking for love (preferably long-term relationship but open to friendships too!). I'm looking for someone who provides a safe, consistent presence in my life. Someone who asks deep, thought-provoking questions and enjoys discussing a wide range of topics from science to culture and philosophy. Someone who enjoys exploring the city, trying new restaurants, cafés, and attending events like lectures, comedy shows, broadways or concerts (bonus points: if you like going to Othership for their free flows or guided meditations).
Above all, my ideal person would be someone who is intentional about love and commitment, knowing what he wants and making the effort to build a meaningful relationship.
Anything else The Joy List community can help you with?
Happy to receive any biochem internship opportunities, receive haikus, words of affirmation that gets you going and pictures of dogs and cats always makes my day :))
If you have to be on LinkedIn, you might as well have fun!
Jillian, The Joy List founder, here! Did you know that I’ve recently become a LinkedIn influencer? Embarrassing, yet true.
Right now, I’m teaching people how to find their voice online through being “weird,” AKA funny/authentic/vulnerable. I went viral and was even featured in Forbes!
I just wrapped up my beta course— called Make LinkedIn Weird— and got rave reviews. Now I’m launching my second class and am looking for 2 things:
Students who are interested in joining. This is a great way to spend your L+D budget and actually enjoy yourself!
Companies that are interested in sponsoring a few students. Tons of people who are currently unemployed have messaged me, expressing interest in joining, and I would love to have them!
Feel free to respond to this email if you have any ideas.
Gatherings
Double check details before you go, and contact the organizers with questions! The Joy List does not run these events.
Wednesday, April 16: Founders Support Potluck Lunch + Co-working Day
This weekly Brown Bag lunch at Civic Hall is for early-stage founders to share a meal (bring your own), and trade war stories and tips.For this week's lunch, we’ll be organising a special edition of Brown Bag Lunch, potluck style. Bring a bite to share.
Free. 12-5.30 PM. Civic Hall. Info here.
Wednesday, April 16: Open Men’s Group
This is Men's Work 101; a confidential space for men to share, be seen, and grow. All registrants must be vetted by phone in order to join. Facilitators are trained by The Mankind Project, a 501(c)3 nonprofit.
$20 donation, 7-9pm, Private space in Flatiron. Info here.
Wednesday, April 16: People Who Thrive
Join People Who Thrive, a monthly gathering for goal-driven New Yorkers on self-propelled career trajectories. Everyone has one minute to share their elevator pitch, an "ask" (something they need help with), and an "offer" (a way they can help others). When the floor is open for networking, it's easy to walk right up to someone you can help, someone who can help you, or someone you might want to be friends with. This month's speaker is Kate Sieler, co-founder of Left Field, a new dating app that helps people meet IRL.
$20 + 6:30pm + 12-16 Vestry Street. Info here.
Thursday, April 17: Figure drawing 003
Welcome to the third edition of figure drawing at telous haus! Figure drawing is quickly becoming a monthly tradition at our space. Join us for an intimate drawing session surrounded by fellow artists and set to mellow, upbeat music. With two sessions already under our belt, we’re ready to make this one as cozy and wholesome as possible. All levels are welcome. Tea, light snacks, and a variety of art materials will be provided.
$20, 6-8.30 PM, 303 Ten Eyck Street. Info here.
Thursday, April 17: +1 Speed Dating [admits 2]
Everyone says they want to meet someone "through friends," and we help make it happen. Grab a pal and join us for 6-minute dates with other great friends-of-friends! Each ticket includes admission for 2 people (1 woman interested in men + 1 man interested in women, late 20's-30's).
$75 (Admits 2). 7-10 PM. 14 West 23rd Street. Info here.
Thursday, April 17: Joust's Jester Jamboree
In honor of our ancestors, we are combining the lost art of 'the dance party' with the unique revelry of game night.
Joust is hosting its quarterly dance-party-game-night. Expect:
Party games like Codenames, Wavelength, and Taboo, with a sampling of familiar favs Uno and Monopoly Deal. Perchanceably, we'll be playing a chaotic group game...
$27. 8 PM to midnight. Register for address. Info here.
Friday, April 18: late night cafe 001
This event is an experiment arising from the dearth of after-hours spaces to read, mingle, and meet others in new york.There will be dimly-lit workspaces, couches and cushions to relax, a selection of custom drinks, and ambient sets by @x0trandon.Bring what stirs your soul.
$15 advance, $20 door, 9 PM - 1 AM, 303 Ten Eyck Street. Info here.
Saturday, April 19: Wellness Healing & Climate Cafe with Earth Sessions
In partnership with Climate Cafe NYC, Earth Sessions is hosting an Earthy Wellness Event on Saturday 4/19 from 4-7pm to celebrate Earth Month.This is a multi-sensory experience with women of color practitioners to help us connect to the earth, ourselves, and our community.
$5. 4-7PM. 101 N 3rd St Brooklyn, NY 11249. Info here.
Saturday, April 19: Subway Reading Party (World Book Day)
To celebrate World Book Day 2025, Reading Rhythms is taking over your local New York subway car for a pop-up reading party! The public ain't gonna know what hit them.
In classic NYC style, we’ll be riding the Q train from top to bottom, ending at Coney Island*. So meet us at the 96th Street Q station, bring a book, and get ready to read in a way that's quite unlike anything we've ever done before.
$10. 10 AM to 12 PM. Info here.