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The Joy List: August 11
Hi there, my gorgeous readers!
Our New Yorker of the Week today is Mimi. She’s in her 40s, lives in the Bronx, and is looking for friendship and love. To contact her, email [email protected].
Know someone (including yourself!) who should be featured? Forward them this form. Or put it in a group chat where people keep talking about being single!
Now, onto the fun things:
How would someone who loves you describe you?
Caring, compassionate but also no nonsense.
What sorts of things do you want to do with your friends?
Karaoke, bowling, gardening, teach me D+D.
What's something that people might not guess about you?
I am a huge Stranger Things fan!
Are you looking for love?
I am exploring connections! Not necessarily looking for love but very much open to it if it comes. I am looking for open minded poly friendly folks.
Anything else that the Joy List community can help you with?
Communal living that is child/cat friendly if that is a thing.
Do you want a high-paying tech job?
Fractal Bootcamp is a 3-month AI engineering accelerator in Williamsburg with a 100% job placement rate and average salary of $115k. All students do externships with NYC startups during the program. The instructors have worked at Google, Netflix, and Series A startups.
Tired of psychiatrists who just give you five minutes and pull out a prescription pad?
Enter: Francesca Rome-Marie. She's a Johns Hopkins trained psychiatric nurse practitioner who runs a holistic therapy and somatic practice. Unlike most therapists though, she can also do lab work, recommend supplements, and prescribe medications. Francesca works with people of all ages, backgrounds, and identities. Many of her patients are part of LGBTQIA+ communities (with many trans and non-binary individuals), and are also creatives of some type.
She specializes in depression, ADHD, anxiety, and trauma. Francesca works with only a small group of patients so she always has time and attention to devote to each individual. She provides creative, modern, and non-judgmental care. Learn more here and sign up for a free discovery call.
Gatherings
Double check details before you go, and contact the organizers with questions! The Joy List does not run these events.
Wednesday, August 13: tea haus 004
Enjoy a late-night teahouse with floor seating, soft lighting, ambient music, and free self-serve tea.
Quiet hours are from 6-8pm; afterwards conversation is welcome. No phones or laptops allowed! We suggest bringing a journal, book, or something to focus on during your visit.
Once you arrive, you'll have the chance to put your name down for a traditional shared tea experience called gongfu cha. Gongfu cha sessions are at 7pm and 9pm.
$10-$20 sliding scale. 6 to 11 PM. Telos haus. Info here.
Wednesday, August 13: Reading Rhythms Queens Presents: Leaves & Literature
Join us for an evening on the roof top, where words steep slowly and stories unfold sip by sip. We are thrilled to share this night in collaboration with Shari Linton—founder of @SharisTea. As she provides an ice tea tasting inspired by Jamaican wellness traditions. This will also be a summer book swap! So please make sure to bring books you’d like to find a new home!
$20. 6:30 to 9:30 PM. 10-15 43rd Ave. Info here.
Thursday, August 14: Fabrik’s Breakfast Series: Creative Cross-Training
Morning coffee meets creativity with rapid-fire exercises, playful collaboration, and real connections.
Free. 9:30 to 11:30 AM. Fabrik. Info here.
Thursday, August 14: Joust <> Dingaling
Ding-A-Ling means "stupid" or "eccentric" so let's go Ding-A-Ling over some board/card and party games this summer.
$30. 7 to 10 PM. RSVP for address. Info here.
Thursday, August 14: The Spark: A Fresh Take on Speed Dating & Friending
Join us at The Spark, an interactive event designed to ignite chemistry, spark laughter, and foster deep human connection. You’ll rotate through a series of playful, thought-provoking activities—from drawing a questionable parrot with a stranger to sharing the last time you felt truly seen. Some prompts will make you laugh, others invite vulnerability and authentic connection. This inclusive experience welcomes people of all genders, ages, and orientations—whether you’re looking for romance, new friends, or just a fun night of meaningful interaction.
$30 630pm 160 West 25th Street New York, NY 10001. Info here.
Friday, August 15: Clothing Swap and Sustainable Fashion Panel
This will be an energizing evening diving into the world of sustainable fashion! We'll have a dynamic panel of NYC sustainable fashionistas, a clothing swap, vendors, zero waste snacks & more!
5:30-8:00pm. Dumbo, NYC. $12. Info here.
Sunday, August 17: For The People - A Substance-Free Dance Party
For the first time in the history of Third Place Bar, we're throwing an outdoor dance party! We're teaming up with industry veteran ANICHE to take over the huge backyard at Crossroads coffee shop in Bushwick for the outdoor dance party - totally free AND substance-free. Expect an amazing DJ lineup, NA drink specials, and a bedazzle station!
Free ($10 suggested donation), 3-8PM, Crossroads Cafe, 119 Knickerbocker Ave, Brooklyn. Info here.
Need a spa day?
Use this link to get 30% off your first visit to Bathhouse (the Flatiron or Williamsburg location) and use the code JILLIANRICHARDSON to get 11% off any purchase at Othership! I especially recommend the 2-week intro pass.
Pro tips for both: check them out during the weekday if you want a more quiet, chill vibe. And go in the evenings— especially on the weekend— for a more social energy.
Also, the Williamsburg Bathhouse has a GREAT rooftop pool!
Advertise in The Joy List
Want to reach a bunch of New Yorkers who are sweet, intentional, and love community? Advertise in The Joy List! We’re a great fit for:
Therapists and healers
Retreat hosts
Membership-based communities
Learn more and place your ad here. You get discounts for the more spots you purchase!