Hi there, everyone on the nice list!

Since it’s the holidays, it’s a bit of a slow week for events. But don’t you worry! I scavenged and hunted and explored, and I still have some gatherings for you.

As always, you can submit your events for free here and your paid ads here. (Great if one of your new years goals is to promote your business more.)

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Gatherings

Double check details before you go, and contact the organizers with questions! The Joy List does not run these events.

Monday, December 22: Candlelight Circle Singing

Since the dawn of days, humans have gathered round the fire to share songs and stories, and while we may not be able to start a campfire in the middle of Manhattan, we can at least sing with some candles! These sessions are an invitation to gather round and see what the flickering flames inspire in our songs, letting our music steer towards places that it can only go in the dark. Guided by a skilled facilitator who will teach parts and shape the flow, we will explore moments of song, moments of movement, moments of group and individual sharing, and moments of surprise, as every session is improvised and unique!

We will provide candles, but feel free to bring your own (preferably unscented) if you'd like to share your light with the room!

Donation-based. 7 to 9:30 PM. Arts On Site. Info here.

Tuesday, December 23: Christmas Kiss and Massage Circle

This class, done in Puja circle style, is designed for singles to practice platonic massage techniques, and romantic tantric kissing techniques where kissing is a meditation.

Note from Jillian: If you attend this, please report back to me with details. You are legally obligated.

$25-$45 6-8pm, Bushwick, Address upon registration. Info here.

Wednesday, December 24: Candlelight Circle Singing (Yes again, not a typo!)

Since the dawn of days, humans have gathered round the fire to share songs and stories, and while we may not be able to start a campfire in the middle of Manhattan, we can at least sing with some candles! These sessions are an invitation to gather round and see what the flickering flames inspire in our songs, letting our music steer towards places that it can only go in the dark. Guided by a skilled facilitator who will teach parts and shape the flow, we will explore moments of song, moments of movement, moments of group and individual sharing, and moments of surprise, as every session is improvised and unique!

We will provide candles, but feel free to bring your own (preferably unscented) if you'd like to share your light with the room!

Donation-based. 7 to 9:30 PM. Arts on Site. Info here.

Wednesday, December 24: Bathhouse

Not an event, but if you want to spend some solo time decompressing, Bathhouse in Flatiron and Williamsburg are open! The prices are surprisingly low, given it’s a holiday and the rates can go up to $90 for a day pass.

PS. The pool on the Williamsburg roof is now heated and open!)

Use this link for 25% off your first visit.

All day, baby! Prices range $40-$70 without promo code.

Thursday, December 25: Guided All Around Release at Othership

If Christmas is an emotional day for you and you want to release some stress and be in community, this one-hour guided class at Othership is perfect!

They are also open for free flows (AKA using the sauna and cold plunge without guidance) if you’d prefer to keep to yourself.

• $64 for a one-time pass, or use JILLIANRICHARDSON for an 11% discount on any amount of classes.

• Use this link for 11% off a one-week pass if you’ve never been before. It comes out to less than one class, but you get SEVEN.

$64 but also use all my handy dandy codes above. 12 to 1 PM. Othership Flatiron. Info here.

Thursday, December 25: QC Spa

Not an event, but QC Spa on Governors Island is also open on Christmas!

My tip is to eat before or after, since the food there is wildly expensive and whatever quality.

$130. Info here.

Sunday, December 28 : Reading Rhythms Williamsburg

​​Reading Rhythms is a series of welcoming reading parties designed to make it easy for people to gather and read socially. We invite you to bring any book you want and facilitate silent reading periods, as well as 1-on-1 breakouts, and group discussions to pull on the threads of the books that everyone is engaging with.

​​In a world that can often feel devoid of interest and meaningful connection, we bring readers together to reconnect with our love of learning, to experience the wonder of beautiful venues and curated music, and to gather amongst all of the people who want to be in that very same room.

$20. 7 to 9 PM. Recess Grove. Info here.

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Jillian from The Joy List here. If you didn’t know, my day job is being a ghostwriter who specializes in funny LinkedIn content. Today, Business Insider did a profile on my tips for improving your LinkedIn profile in the new year!

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That's it for this edition. Sending hugs.

Stay cozy,

Jillian

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