Hi there, my splendid readers!

We are ALMOST at our goal of raising $1K for New York Common Pantry.

I can SMELL the success. We’re at $877 folks. Comically close.

You can use this link to donate. I believe in you.

If we hit it, I’ll share my top 3 spots for hot chocolate in the city next week.

And my friends know, I do NOT mess around when it comes to hot chocolate.

Now, onto the events:

Tired of psychiatrists who just give you five minutes and pull out a prescription pad?

Enter: Francesca Rome-Marie. She's a Johns Hopkins trained psychiatric nurse practitioner who runs a holistic therapy and somatic practice. Unlike most therapists though, she can also do lab work, recommend supplements, and prescribe medications. Francesca works with people of all ages, backgrounds, and identities. Many of her patients are part of LGBTQIA+ communities (with many trans and non-binary individuals), and are also creatives of some type.

She specializes in depression, ADHD, anxiety, and trauma. Francesca works with only a small group of patients so she always has time and attention to devote to each individual. She provides creative, modern, and non-judgmental care. Learn more here and sign up for a free discovery call.

Gatherings

Double check details before you go, and contact the organizers with questions! The Joy List does not run these events.

Tuesday, November 18: Bridging the Gap: Healing the Divide Between Men & Women

The world is divided. Men are often called toxic, and women continue to have to fight for the right to make decisions about their own bodies. ​Welcome to the Human Hearts Collective — a welcoming space for men and women to connect, share, and heal through meaningful conversation. ​Through guided dialogue and shared experiences, we will heal misunderstandings and learn to truly see and hear each other.

$22. 5:30-9pm. 20 Jay Street (Fabrik). Info here.

Tuesday, November 18: Radical Aliveness: A Laboratory For Embodied And Authentic Relating

​We will engage in a transformative group process facilitated by somatic therapist Shea Riester, LMSW, SEP, and Circling / Authentic Relating facilitator, Zettie Shapey.

$40. 6:30 to 9:30 PM. Register for Brooklyn address. Info here.

Wednesday, November 19: PubClub: Philosophy Discussion

PubClub organizes small group meet-ups at local bars and coffee shops and facilitates casual, curated discussion. It's an intellectual outlet for non-academics. Join PubClub on Wednesday for a low-stakes discussion on the philosophy of democracy and representation. Learn something new and join a growing community!

$10, 7:30pm, Upper West Side (location provided after ticket purchase). Info here.

Wednesday, November 19: Creators Night Off: A Phone-Free Experience

​A curated, phone-free social experience designed for creators, social media managers, and storytellers who want to step away from the algorithm and reconnect offline.​Trade in the notifications and distractions for fresh energy, creative conversations, and a menu of cocktails (NA included) and snacks available (you deserve it!)​Upon arrival, you’ll check your phone with us for safekeeping. From there, your only role is to be fully present.

$25, 12-16 Vestry St, New York, NY 10013. Info here.

Thursday, November 20: What's Your Story?

What's Your Story? is the facilitated social event where you meet new people by sharing and hearing true stories from each other's lives. You'll learn a lot about yourself, others and how to tell a great story, and you'll have a bunch of fascinating conversations. Past attendees have called this the best event they've ever been to. Come try it out for yourself!

$28.52. 6:30-9:30pm. 799 Manhattan Ave, Brooklyn. Info here.

Thursday, November 20: Ecstatic Dance Uptown

Ecstatic Dance Uptown is bringing embodied, freeform dance classes north of 110th St in Manhattan. Our community is inclusive and non-dogmatic (you don't need us to tell you how to breathe or move your hips.) We also don't care if you can't "dance" - this is purely a space for mindful movement to a narrative sonic arc facilitated by a professional DJ. Use code JOYLIST for 50% off GA tickets.

$30 ($15 JOYLIST special 😘). 7:30-10:00 PM. 2293 12th ave. Info here.

Thursday. November 20: Coming Home to the Self

Heading home for the holidays? We could all use a few tools to not get stuck in old dynamics and relational patterns. Join us for an evening of learning and understanding tools to keep us grounded through challenging times with somatic psychology and relational reflection at Flower Cat NYC.

$20. 7:30-9 PM. 162 Noble St. Info here.

Sunday, November 23: (Free Book & Merch Included!) Special Page to Screen Reading Party Ft. HAMNET

​We’ll be gathering in an atmospheric venue perfect for getting lost in O’Farrell’s world of nature & mysticism, all scored by a curated soundtrack inspired by the film’s original music by Max Richter.

​Whether you’re meeting HAMNET for the first time or revisiting a favorite, this is your chance to connect with fellow readers, explore the book’s themes in intimate discussion blocks, and get a first look at one of the year’s most anticipated films (starring Paul Mescal and Jessie Buckley, produced by Steven Spielberg and Sam Mendes).

$20. 7 to 9:15 PM. Hide and Seek. Info here.

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Stay cozy,

Jillian

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